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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BowSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:34 pm AEDT

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Good to see you too, I’m about the same @outlander anxiety troubling me tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:38 pm AEDT

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Do you want to talk about anything @Bow

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BowSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:42 pm AEDT

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Nah It’s ok.

How was your day?

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:46 pm AEDT

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That's ok @Bow
My day was average. Raining alot here so not much to do. Had the kids for a while and ordered my sisters birthday present and researching a few things. Feeling quite worn out latley.

Whats your day been like? Get up to much?

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Eve7Senior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:50 pm AEDT

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Just enjoying a cuppa here @outlander

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BowSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:50 pm AEDT

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Sorry your feeling worn out @outlander you have some health concerns being investigated yeah? Maybe I’m wrong?

i had to go out for a work meeting this morning and then went and visited a friend for a bit. Done some painting this evening to help keep me distracted. That’s about it for today.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:51 pm AEDT

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Just heading off to bed now @outlander @Bow ... so dropping in to say good night. And @Anastasia @Eve7 @WIP .

Shout out too to @Sans911 ... its been a while since I've seen you around. Hope you are not impacted by the fires raging around some parts of WA.

And also @Bunniekins ... missing you Pea.

Anyone have any idea when @Snowie returns from holidays?

'Nite all 💤💓😴

Emelia 🌺

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:52 pm AEDT

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Snowie i believe is home on the 10th from memory @Emelia8

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:55 pm AEDT

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Yeah i have quite a few things being investigated atm @Bow

Oh i didn't know you liked painting. I like it to but not overly good at it. I havent done any for months now. What do you like to paint?

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BowSenior Contributor07 Jan 2021, 10:58 pm AEDT

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Hope you get some answers soon @outlander . I know this time of the year can be difficult to make appointments and it’s hard to wait!

ive been doing a few different things. Playing with some watercolours doing flowers and leaves- I like plants too. And I’ve just painted some frozen characters on some canvas shoes for my daughter and tonight started monster inc shoes for a friends set of twins- it’s a good distraction for me at the moment, which I really need.

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