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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 12:20 am AEDT

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Would you like some company for abit @Anastasia ill be up for just abit longer so can share a tea if youd like

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Lee82Senior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 4:11 am AEDT

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@outlander I am so sorry I havent been around here for a while. I have mainly stuck to the darkness thread as I have not had the strength to venture out anywhere much less support anyone properly. I hope you have been doing ok hun.
sendijg you hugs and letting you know that you are always in my thoughts. 💚

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 6:53 am AEDT

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I'm sorry @outlander

I went to bed after my post last night. Your company is always lovely and appreciated. I hope you have a good day today and get some time for you. Love and hugs xxx

🙏🤗🤞💞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 7:02 am AEDT

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I'm not meant to venture off my thread at the moment @outlander but I posted a couple of times to you there and you didn't see, so I just wanted to say I think of you often and hope that you are coping OK...I think you see the pain specialist very soon? I really hope that helps... Sending you much 💙

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Emelia8Senior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 7:22 am AEDT

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Thank you @outlander @Eve7 @Anastasia 🌷

I'm okay. 😔

Nice to see you here also @Lee82 @NatureLover 🌻

Em

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Unknown userMember06 Jan 2021, 7:26 am AEDT

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Good morning little one, have really missed chatting with you. I hope today is gentle with you and that there are some peaceful moments for you. 🦖🦖🦖🦖🦖🦖 @outlander

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Unknown userMember06 Jan 2021, 10:01 pm AEDT

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Good night little one, hoping you are as ok as a you can be. @outlander

Good night @Sans911 a

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 10:21 pm AEDT

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That's ok @Lee82 i often tag you as your in my thoughts. Never an obligation to reply though. Its good to see you 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 10:21 pm AEDT

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@Anastasia @Eve7 @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Snowie 💛💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Jan 2021, 10:27 pm AEDT

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Hi @NatureLover 🌻
Nice to see you. I mightve missed your tags, ive been away for a few days so only kinda popped on quick or not at all cause of reception issues. Im still kinda catching up when i can. My computers on its way out and very few keys on the keyboard work so i have to use the onscreen keyboard or my phone when i have privacy (school holidays now for us here so i have the kids)
The specialist appt had to be moved to feb unfortunately but its not far off now
Lovley to see you, i promise ill pop in to catch up on your news too 💙💛💕

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