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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 Dec 2020, 8:21 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

Chrissy can be a hard time, especially around family 😢

I remember you saying you had an extra for a few days. I hope they are not too much trouble. D had a friend over last night but they occupied each other so that was ok. Not sure what time they got to sleep but it was late 😊

Sounds like taking your own food is a good idea hun, but it's a shame you have too. Damm allergies.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor18 Dec 2020, 8:28 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

Yes I surprised myself with what I did manage to do @outlander .. thank you. 😄💓

Yes I got out of bed and Im still here. Bonus 👍

I also changed bed sheets and got a load of washing out and dried before heavy rain came thru this arvo.

I did my weekly grocery shop. I paid a stack of bills online.

I sent xmas money to over-18 nephews and grandson bank accounts. And spoke to each.

Also sent xmas gift money to stepson and stepdaughter for young grandkids xmas presents. Because Im so damned disorganised that I havent yet done anything else. So stepkids will have to shop for us. At least I organised a case of wine each to be delivered to both stepkids.

I booked an apt for hubby with his Parkinsons neurologist in February and his GP next week.

And I fielded and dealt with 3 calls from the cancer institute where I have a pre-radiation-therapy planning session apt on Monday.

So lots of ticks, but now Im mentally exhausted and physically fatigued and hurting.

@Snowie @Eve7 @Anastasia @Sans911

Emelia 💞