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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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So sorry to hear @outlander 💞

Will you be staying in hospital, or have they got things under control and likely to release you? Do you know what caused the reaction?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I should be ok to come home. They want to keep me here for abit longer though.
I wasnt careful enough selecting things. I was tired and just needed something
budget friendly tonight. It had wheat and peanut products in it. Wasnt suppose to have dairy but was processed with other products that contained it. So was a triple whammy. The antihistamines that i had here had lactose in it so didn't take it and then just escalated abit with my anxiety not knowing what else to do.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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So sorry to hear @outlander

Hopefully you can go home soon hun.

Take care of yourself sweetie.

Sitting with you 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I hope so too @Snowie the cough is still lingering abit and stomach pains hopeing they settle so i can go home

@Emelia8

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Sounds like you need to have some anti histamines on hand that you can use @outlander

There are sure to be other occasions where you will have an allergic reaction to something.

And I would consider this to be a priority sweetie. Maybe an epipen is appropriate. I know many allergic reactions can get progressively worse each time. Certainly peanut allergies are like that. Would suggest you talk to your GP or specialist about what to keep on hand for future occasions.

Emelia 🍒

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Ive usually got one i can use but cause ive been using them so much for even hayfever (and its a kids one so i have to double the dose of it as said by gp) i go through it quite quickly. They only let me get one at a time. I might have to speak to the pharmacist and see if i can get 2 esp now with food allergies. They had to give injections here 😞😩
Its not severe enough for an epipen (yet) so cant get one. Mine are only classed as moderate. They suggested getting those skin tests done to see if theres any other allergies and maybe going off egg as well as i might be intolerant to that. At this rate i may as well be a rabbit and just eat salad. @Emelia8
quite tired now, am ready for bed

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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So are you home now @outlander ?

Good night sweetie. I hope you sleep.

Emelia 😴🌹

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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No not yet @Emelia8
Prob here another hr or so yet. I think they keep here for a few hrs for observation to make sure they ok. Have to get drs clearance to go (i honestly cant understand what he says so i have to ask the nurse when he leaves 🤦‍♀️) and have discharge arranged or whatever they need to do now

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Are u going to bed now? @Emelia8 they are arranging for me to go home so i should be home within the hr hopefully

Ill say goodnight to you @Snowie thanks for being here too 🌷

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Thats good @outlander . Yes I am going to bed now. Nite. 💓

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