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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 8:18 pm AEDT

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im worn out just thinking about it @Snowie shes a handful more often then not
i have another migraine and pain relief made it worse and caused a stomach ache. i had 2 mouthfuls of pasta and it was an instant migraine 😞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 8:22 pm AEDT

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Oh @outlander

I really wish you didn't have to deal with so much. I am so sorry hun. I hope you get some rest tonight xox

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 8:22 pm AEDT

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I'm sorry you have another migraine hun. You seem to be getting so many of them @outlander I am worried about you sweetie. With no time to yourself seems to make things worse too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 8:31 pm AEDT

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@Anastasia @Snowie is flared up the burning nerve sensation in my face and neck as well and feels like my neck is all inflammed. i was fine an hr ago until i made dinner. i dont understand why they keep happening. i happens at least once a week with headaches/bad headaches every other day.
took pointless pain meds so will go try a shower.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 8:35 pm AEDT

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😟 You poor thing.

A shower sounds like a good idea

@outlander xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 9:07 pm AEDT

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@Emelia8 🌻

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Emelia8Senior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 9:10 pm AEDT

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@outlander 😄💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 9:26 pm AEDT

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care to join me for a cuppa? @Emelia8 @Anastasia @Snowie @Eve7 @Former-Member (and everyone)

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 9:28 pm AEDT

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I'd love to @outlander 🌼

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Dec 2020, 9:31 pm AEDT

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@Anastasia sounds good. im spending alot of time in bed lately so while my migraine is lingering i dont want to go to bed yet. cuppa first

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