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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 10:48 pm AEDT

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Oh @Bow that's not good I am sorry.

Happy to listen or just sit if that helps? Pretty sure @outlander is here still too

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BowSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 10:59 pm AEDT

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I can’t anymore

My head is spinning

thabksnthiugh

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 11:02 pm AEDT

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I hear you @Bow

I'm sorry. I'm here for you xx

@Former-Member please help to take care of Bow

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 11:10 pm AEDT

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I'm still here with you @Bow holding your hand x

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 11:18 pm AEDT

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I just want to say I think you are brave @Bow

You've reached out. Sadly you didn't get the help you need and deserve. I'm really sorry for that. That sucks big time.

Do you think you could call again in the hope someone different answers Lifeline?

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Eve7Senior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 11:35 pm AEDT

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Hugs @Bow

💙🤗💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 11:36 pm AEDT

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@Bow im sorry lifeline wasnt helpful tonight, you could try suicide call back service too

Sounds like you might be overwhelmed though so maybe a hot shower and earlier bed would be helpful too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 11:44 pm AEDT

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@Eve7 @Anastasia 🧡

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor18 Nov 2020, 7:15 am AEDT

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Good morning @outlander @Eve7

I do hope @Bow is ok. I did reach out to the moderator so hopefully she received support in the way of an email perhaps?

I hope today is good to you. Beautiful weather to be on holidays Eve, enjoy 💜

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor18 Nov 2020, 7:18 am AEDT

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Good morning @NatureLover

Have a day as glorious as you my friend 💞❣️💞

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