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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I havwnt had a reaction like this for a few weeks @Emelia8 @Snowie it usually settles overnight 🤞


I have been to the drs. My b12 and iron levels are very low. He has said i nees to take iron suppliments but he may end up seeing if i can get a transfusion instead esp if i react badly to the iron liquid suppliment. The b12 are injections. Im so scared of needles. I have a retired nurse friend who has offerred to do them if i get the ones from over the counter/prescription rather then having to go to the drs but i dont know yet.

@Sans911@Anastasia@Eve7 @Appleblossom @tagging you guys here to

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hoping is does settle hun and you can still get some sleep tonight.

Needles are not nice but if you need to get them having a friend do them might be better for you. Hopefully the iron supplements work and you don't have to have a transfusion, I am on them too @outlander

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💞💞💞

Thanks for saying hi xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I had a look at the new med i was put onto for 4 days ans what im experiencing is also side effect so perhaps its not dairy reaction after all. Fingers crossed now that i havent been on them itll settle very quickly. Might be in for a long night though.

The iron and b12 levels arenr really from a diet perspective atm thouvh its def not helping. Its alot to do with what happened after i has the iud removed. The past 2 weeks ive barely been out of the house because i have to change every half hr due to ble*ding thats what the new meds have been for to slow it down which has helped abit. I have to see the gyno asap but the earliest is early decemeber so still a few weeks away yet.
It does answer why ive been so tired, headaches, dizzy, shakiness ans very short on air etc.
@Snowie @Emelia8

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hopefully the iron supplements work and you don't have to have a transfusion @outlander

I can not take iron supplements as I have too much iron ferritine in my body -- I am a carrier of Iron overload

but make sure which iron supplement you are trying to increase my sister as I might be high in ferritine iron level , i can still be anemia with my other iron levels

I can not have a transfusion due to my Heblogin levels

@Snowie, @Anastasia , @Emelia8 , @Appleblossom

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Oh @outlander not good news I am so sorry. I just wanted to say I am thinking of you. I was asleep on couch and woke up so barely have eyes open. Night beautiful friends. Xxx

@Shaz51 @Emelia8 @Snowie @Appleblossom @Eve7 everyone 💞❣️💞

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

SO much going on Bella.

@Shaz51 @Anastasia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hi Apple nice to see you.

I didn't fall back to sleep after taking myself to bed 😣 so here for a little bit @Appleblossom @outlander @Shaz51 @Snowie @Former-Member and everyone

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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goodnight again my @Anastasia

Hugs @Appleblossom

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