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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Oct 2020, 10:56 pm AEDT

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Sorry i dropped out @Emelia8 are you still up?

I hope your surgical appt goes well. I know its nerve wracking but hopefully he will be able to help answer any questions u might have

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Unknown userMember19 Oct 2020, 11:33 pm AEDT

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@outlander 💞🌸🌷🌺

@Eve7 @Emelia8 @Anastasia and everyone

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Emelia8Senior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 2:36 am AEDT

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Beautiful flowers @Former-Member 🌺😀

Thanks all @Former-Member @outlander @Eve7 @Anastasia 🙏💕

Hope you are all sleeping soundly by now. Sweet dreams 😴💖

Emelia 🌷

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 11:43 am AEDT

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@outlander sorry things are so difficult at the moment but thanks for checking in sweeheart. Have been missing you sis 💕

Take care of you, sitting with you hun 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 6:21 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 @Snowie @Appleblossom @Eve7 @Anastasia @Emelia8 @Former-Member
❤💛

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 6:47 pm AEDT

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@outlander sis, here for you hun 💕💕

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 7:22 pm AEDT

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Good to "hear" from you Bella

Hugs @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 8:10 pm AEDT

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Struggling quite badly atm. I feel like i keep stuffing up even here. Ive asked for help but no surprise i dont have any. Cant share how serious a situation is because im to afraid because its never reciprocated well.
Hoping there will be a difference even slightly overnight otherwise ive been told i need to go to emergency tomorrow.
Am so tired. So over life. Tired of manging symptoms. Tired of struggling to survive.
Im missing you all and just hoping that you are all as ok as can be

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Oct 2020, 8:14 pm AEDT

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Sorry to hear you are struggling hun. Am here if you need to chat about it sweetheart.

Looking after yourself is the most important thing and I am here with you all the way.

Love you sis, you are so important to me @outlander 💌💌💌

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Unknown userMember20 Oct 2020, 8:37 pm AEDT

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Hi @outlander ,

Sounds like things are very hard for you at the moment and feeling really overwhelming. It was good to read that you have asked for help but sad to hear you haven't got any. Please continue to reach out as needed either through the forums, SANE Help Centre or any crisis services you may need.
You have and are such a great support to so many other members on the forums, so don't forget to look after yourself and take care, reach out and get support when you need and deserve it.
Please take care,

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