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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 1:52 am AEST

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You ok @outlander ? Anything you want to chat about? I am here for a while.

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 1:54 am AEST

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I was asleep for all of half an hour 😫

Hey @Lee82 its good to see you chatting. It was a nice convo to read 🙂

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 1:56 am AEST

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Mmm...I'm sorry you woke @outlander . Is there anything you would like to chat about or did you want to maybe try and get back to sleep?

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:04 am AEST

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It wouldve been nice to be asleep but i think ill be up for a little bit now @Lee82
Ive flared up the sickness and pain thing ive been getting the past few days even more again by laying in a wrong position. Ive taken pain killers tonight to see if itll help enough to get a few hrs sleep in tonight.

Does sleep look possible for you tonight?

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:11 am AEST

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I'm so sorry @outlander you are in pain. I can imagine how trusting that all would be. I hope tomorrow's news is helpful enough to help you get better my friend but for now I hope the pain killers help you
no I will be up for quite awhile still.

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:15 am AEST

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Thanks @Lee82 💖

Is there anything you want to talk about?

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:15 am AEST

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I was going to ask you the same thing? @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:24 am AEST

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Not really @Lee82 worrie a litle about what tests might/might not show but im ok leaving those feelings alone for now. abit tired but sleeps not coming atm.
Happy to stay and keep you company though, much better then staring into oblivion 😏

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:27 am AEST

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It's normal to be worried @outlander I will be thinking of you tomorrow. What time do you get the results?
I appreciate the company. Right now I am fighting my demon and I'm not sure what to do. First time since Thursday I have had these feelings.

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 Apr 2020, 2:39 am AEST

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I'm sorry @outlander I'm probably not the best person to be around at the moment. I probably should go and maybe you can try and get some rest. I only have darkness inside of me right now and I know that is the last thing you will be needing right now. I'm sorry outlander.
I hope you can sleep. Thoughts are with you my friend. Thank you for inviting me to your thread and keeping company. 💕

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