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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Thanks @Appleblossom its a yummy cake but im not allowed. The house smells good though!
Theres a female iud trained dr in the next clinic over. I gave them a rang and the reception said she could squeeze me in in 20 minutes for a quick chat.

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Thanks for asking @outlander .. my day was going marginally better. I saw my psych this morning and she was really lovely. Told me she would support me through all this, and to contact her anytime. But then after I got home I received my 'package' from breastscreen ... with all the pathology results, scans, and other info for my treating team. The Dr who rang and spoke to me last week, only told me some of the info. The full report is much less optimistic. Feeling a little devastated about it all. Oh well ... at least tomorrow I see my GP who will give me a referral to a surgeon. Hoping I can get in to consult with surgeon fairly quickly and then surgery asap. I'm told that once you get the paperwork into the hospital that surgery will take place within 30 days. So I guess its all still a fair way off. I really just want it done.

I did feel a little better after the local breastcare nurse rang me a little earlier. She was really nice and helpful and also told me to let her know once I had an apt with the surgeon. And to contact her any time I have any questions.

Your cake for your Sis sounds lovely ... can I come and share? 🎂😊

Hi @Anastasia @Sans911 @Appleblossom @Jynx How has your respective day's been?

Emelia 💕

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Maybe? @outlander

My anxiety doesn't cope well to leave him. Maybe something to think about x Hope you are on your way to the dr 🙂

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Ohhh good news @outlander ... I really hope the female Dr can help you. Let us know how you get along. Fingers crossed something can be resolved.

Emelia 👍💖

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Hi @Emelia8

So pleased that your psych was really lovely an she has said she will support me through all this, and to contact her anytime.

I am sorry your 'package' from breastscreen arrived and then your day went downhill 😞

I Hope you can get in to consult with surgeon fairly quickly too and then have the surgery asap after. I can imagine that you would just want it done now xxx

@outlander @Appleblossom @Sans911 xox

I am pleased that you felt a little better after the local breastcare nurse rang you, she sounds lovely. It is noce you have some good support available to yu, that makes me happy.

My day - I am just plodding along, finished work for the day so that is good. Just going to plop on the lounge for half an hour and do some diamond painting before I start dinner, I am thoroughly exhausted. I did take some photos of them today so will upload in the craft thread and tag you. You will have to share yours too 🙂

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Thanks @Anastasia 🙏

I am about to do some diamond painting soon too, before then getting dinner ready. I will look out for your picture on the craft thread. I havent done much of mine for a while, but did a bit a couple of days ago. Still only 5/6th done, so a bit soon to share any work in progress shots. Hmmm ... maybe I could. I will see later. I will share once its finished of course. I have half a dozen on the Craft thread which I have shared previously. What are you doing for your dinner?

Emelia 💕

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@outlander

So glad you found a better option re doctor.

Seems as if we all can only enjoy your cake virtually. lol Yum tho!

@Emelia8

Sorry the prognosis was not better. I do hope there will be many helpers on your new journey. My only experience with breast cancer was with a friend who passed. I have an old muso and science friend who is getting chemo. Sent me a pic today and it was such a change from his full long grey hair. Sorry I cant help much, but walking along with you, trying to make it less alone. Youd eserve all the help you can get, let others take up some slack on your hub. This is your turn.

@Anastasia

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Hey @Appleblossom

I have been thinking of you today my friend 🙂

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Respites an option at least @Anastasia you can still ring and talk to him and they are trained to handle all sorts of situations 💕

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@Appleblossom 🎂🍰🍰
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