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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 11:55 am AEDT

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@outlander How are you going today hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 12:11 pm AEDT

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Im not feeling to well @Snowie i think some of it is a reaction to iud removal. . Will ring dr soon if it hasnt settled. Not a good mix with a stomach that wont settle down so everythings a mess here.

Sorry had to edit

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 12:19 pm AEDT

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Sounds like it is a bit of a mess there @outlander

I hope things calm down for you soon hun. Glad you have doctor to ring if things don't settle down soon.

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 12:58 pm AEDT

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Sounds a bit horrid @outlander

There are some advantages to going through menopause. I know that seems a long way. Hope there are good years before you get there. Not that you need to look too far ahead. Love you Bella.

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 5:01 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Snowie @Appleblossom 💕
Hasnt eased yet ans cant get into dr till friday. Not sure what to do.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 5:06 pm AEDT

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A trip to the A&E could be on the cards then @outlander 😢 💓 Friday is a long way away sweetie, and you shouldnt need to put up with what you are, for such a long time.

Sitting with you and bringing you a cuppa if you can stomach one. I've brought the milk you can drink btw. Did you manage to get into town to buy food that you can eat? Its a big problem if you havent. You need to eat girl! Arrrgghhh ... you're a worry sweetheart.

Emelia 🌸

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 5:16 pm AEDT

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I dont want to go to ed 😥 im tired and have a migraine and just very messy here. @Emelia8
Ive really only taken kids to ans from school. I stopped at the convenience store and got a few things. I had to get a necessity item since i wasnt expecting this issue to come up esp so quickly.
Pops dinner is being delivered so hes sorted at least . I can make a sandwhich later or vegies if i want but im not hungry atm.
Probably just make me sick and then ill have to deal with those stomach cramps too 😥

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Oct 2020, 5:18 pm AEDT