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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:05 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Snowie just some days makes me want to tear my hair out in frustration

No theres nothing else here i can have till i go to the shops tomorrow

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:05 pm AEDT

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It's not petty, I feel for you @outlander and I'd feel the same x have you got something you can have for dinner?

@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:08 pm AEDT

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Sorry to hear @outlander that there is nothing else you can have there.

I hope you are able to get some things tomorrow for yourself

@Anastasia 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:10 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Anastasia 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:11 pm AEDT

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Its ok @Snowie tbh i wasnt hungry in the first place. I think i have some crackers left still so ill have those later if i get peckish

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:14 pm AEDT

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☹️ @outlander

Sorry hun.

@Snowie @outlander ❤️💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:17 pm AEDT

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Its ok @Anastasia xo
I shouldve probably been more organised or had something to fall back on.

@Anastasia @Snowie @Emelia8 @Sans911
How have your days been?

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:25 pm AEDT

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@outlander my day has been mixed. Took D shopping for some essential clothes she needed. Was nice to spend some time with her but didn't cope with the crowds that well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:27 pm AEDT

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Oh clothes shopping with D sounds nice @Snowie its nice to have mother daughter time im sure.
Oh really ia there still alot of crowda even with all those restrictions?

In the movies today it was so quiet. There was only us and 2 other families in the same cinema room.

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Oct 2020, 8:35 pm AEDT

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There were quite a lot of people around @outlander

Where we went there were not as many restrictions in place.

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