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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 1:18 am AEDT

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Hopefully he will start to accept some help even in baby steps @Sans911 hard to accept when youve been independent for so long

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 1:44 am AEDT

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@Sans911 its not far ofd 2am here and im starting to drfit off now so will say goodnight now 💕🌻😴
I hope you can get some sleep 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 1:46 am AEDT

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I actually thought you had dropped off to sleep @outlander. Night hun. Thanks for sitting with me 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 8:30 am AEDT

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Sitting with you always @Sans911 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 8:32 am AEDT

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Morning @Emelia8 💙🧡

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Emelia8Senior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 8:34 am AEDT

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Good morning @outlander and also @Sans911 💜💛🌷

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 8:39 am AEDT

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How did you sleep? @Emelia8

Whats your day looking like

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Emelia8Senior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 8:48 am AEDT

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I got a couple of hours sleep after midnight @outlander , but been awake since 3am. Very tired, but 2 hrs is better than nothing. Just got too much rattling through my head.

Emelia 🌷💛🌹

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 8:52 am AEDT

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I understand 💕 @Emelia8
Hoping there might be some good in today. Maybe a walk in the garden with your little dog

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 10:51 am AEDT

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@outlander lots of love and hugs sis. Sitting with you like always 💌💌💌

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