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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Emelia8Senior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 9:39 am AEDT

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Hope it goes as well as possible Li'l One. @outlander 🌷💜💕

Morning @Sans911 @Anastasia @Snowie 🌼🌞

Emelia

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 10:42 am AEDT

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Sitting with you lil sis @outlander hoping it goes as well as it can.

Lots of big squishy hugs @Emelia8 @Anastasia @Sans911

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 10:52 am AEDT

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Sitting with you too @outlander

hoping for the best outcome from today sweetie, big hug xox

Hello @Snowie @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Zoe7

Hugs all round xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 12:50 pm AEDT

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@Emelia8 @Snowie @Anastasia
💜
Just getting home now. Need to rest abit. Will try to come on abit later

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 12:53 pm AEDT

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Lil sis @outlander

Take your time sweetheart. Resting sounds like a good idea.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 1:05 pm AEDT

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@Snowie 💕
Procedure didnt as hurt sd much as i thought just have a after effects which they told me to expect for a few days. Had a thorough but invasive test, yet another diagnosis 😥. Have to go back in 6 weeks to chat more and see if procedure helped abit or not and discuss when i might be able to have a surgical procedure done. I would say procedures but i vant think if im allowed to say thrm or not will have to check first

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 1:13 pm AEDT

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I am glad the procedure didn't hurt as much as you thought lil sis. Regardless of if you can say the diagnosis or not, I will be here for you hun @outlander Hoping for your sake it helps and you don't have to have a surgical procedure.

Will come and sit myself next to you sweetheart.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor09 Oct 2020, 1:16 pm AEDT