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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember06 Oct 2020, 7:37 pm AEDT

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Thanks @outlander 💖💞🥰🤗

Hoping your health etc improves soon.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor06 Oct 2020, 7:42 pm AEDT

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Thank you beautiful girl ❤️

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Oct 2020, 7:45 pm AEDT

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thanks @Former-Member @Anastasia have alot on my mind atm

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Oct 2020, 8:48 pm AEDT

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hi @Former-Member would you like to talk here? i would be happy to listen and i know others have offerred the same too.
we arent suppose to reply on the worry room thread but you we would like to support you if youd like to talk. your welcome to share thoughts and feelings and challanges here if you would like

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Unknown userMember07 Oct 2020, 9:08 pm AEDT

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Thankyou @outlander kind of you and the others.

I am having trouble sharing any thoughts properly, like everything is jumpled up in my head. Just feeling so very sad. And cannot work things out

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Oct 2020, 9:11 pm AEDT

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you were writing pretty well on the worry room thread @Former-Member would you like to talk more about what you wrote on there?
it sounds really tough for you

could i ask if you have any supports offline as well like gp or psychologist as well?

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Zoe7Senior Contributor07 Oct 2020, 9:44 pm AEDT

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@Former-Member One of the things about the emotional abuse you are enduring is it makes us question everything we know and think. You have done so very well to describe how you are feeling and what your husband's behaviour towards you is doing to you so here also to lend an ear and listen along the way. You do not have to go through this alone - that is the wonderful thing about a peer to peer support forum like this one - it is not just about getting things out but having people around that you can chat to in order to work through some of those thoughts is often helpful - and you receive so much support in return. Please keep getting your thoughts out in whatever way you can and know when you need we are here both listening and supporting you