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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember03 Oct 2020, 8:38 pm AEST

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Sounds awful @outlander 💞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 8:46 pm AEST

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I'm sorry sweetheart, please take care @outlander xxx

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Sans911Senior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 9:13 pm AEST

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Ice chips @outlander?

Evening @Snowie - don't try too hard to catch up here. I've tried before & it just gets stressful. Just know we are all still waiting here for you.

Evening @Eve7 @Former-Member @Anastasia @Emelia8 @NatureLover

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Unknown userMember03 Oct 2020, 9:15 pm AEST

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I know what you mean @Sans911 its ok. 🥰

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 9:45 pm AEST

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Thanks @Sans911 i feel like I am letting people down and not standing up to there problems. I dont expect people to wait aound for , I really don’t think I am worth it.
Just being my plain self is enough

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Emelia8Senior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 9:54 pm AEST

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You have not let anyone else down @Snowie and you are a very worthy person. Please never doubt yourself, or the positive impact you have on others. 👍💖

Hi @Sans911 😀 and @Former-Member if you are still around.

Emelia 🌸

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Sans911Senior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 10:02 pm AEST

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You're far from being your 'plain self' @Snowie. You're much more interesting than that. And you're definitely worth being here: my days are better with you around.

But right now your in a low spot, and your brain is filling you up with lies and false truths. These are so easy to believe and we don't fight it because we simply don't have the energy or self worth.

I understand that you feel you're letting people down. I struggle with that same feeling when I'm not here and I see others have had a tough time. But the people we treasure, connect and care about here will always have someone to support and help them. They are rarely alone.

For now, your focus must be trying to help yourself move forward a bit more. And that takes time and energy.

I wait for you until the end of days Snowie because I like you very much. You are worth knowing. And I know there's lots of other people feel the same. One day I hope to say 'I knew Snowie when things were really difficult. You should see her now'

Hugs and love sweetheart 😘💜💜💜💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 10:04 pm AEST

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your not letting anyone down and you are more then worth it @Snowie

@Sans911 i dont have any ice chips or room in freezer unfortunatly but thats a good idea.

@Anastasia @Emelia8 @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 10:19 pm AEST

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@Sans911 a little bit random but do you know any essential oils that might be ok for allergies? like hayfever?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor03 Oct 2020, 10:26 pm AEST

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@outlander You could try lavendar, peppermint, lemon, eucalyptus or teatree oil.

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