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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Emelia8Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:11 pm AEST

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@Former-Member 💕🌼

Movie title starting with D @Sans911 ?

How about .... Deer Hunter

Did you know there is a full moon tonight?

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Sans911Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:12 pm AEST

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Awww..... Thanks 🤗😘😘

@Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:13 pm AEST

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D... drop dead fred @Sans911 @Emelia8 @Former-Member and everyone

Goodnight @Eve7 😴

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Sans911Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:14 pm AEST

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No, I didn't know there's a full moon. Thanks @Emelia8

Deer Hunter is good

How about Dangerous Liaisons?

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Sans911Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:15 pm AEST

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Your favourite lil Sis @outlander 💙💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:19 pm AEST

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I haven't heard of deer hunters or dangerous liasons

Drop dead fred came to mind quickly but i find it boring unless im in the mood to watch it. Theres lots of movies that start with d though

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Emelia8Senior Contributor02 Oct 2020, 11:20 pm AEST

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When you drink @Former-Member ... what is it that you usually drink? Dont feel you have to answer, just curious. As you may recall ... I used to resort to alcohol too sometimes. Usually when I was badly triggered around anniversary time, which is in February for me. And my husband used to be away a lot at that time of year when he travelled a lot overseas several times a year. So I was often at home on my own, imagining all sorts of things, scared at home. I would drink, to try and sleep, to try not to feel, to take away the fear, to try to quash the nightmares. For me it is usually scotch ... straight, or on the rocks. Drinking unfortunately only makes things worse. It isnt a solution. But of course ... try telling me that at the time I needed it! Argh. Wondering if you have had any help with that at all? My GP and my psych have counselled me on drinking, and fortunately I rarely do it any more.

@Sans911 @outlander @Eve7 @Anastasia Movie title starting with an R?

Hey Outlander ... are you home yet?

Emelia

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