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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 8:40 pm AEST

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I know you have wiped the post now, but try not to listen to those nasty, negative thoughts in your head @outlander.

I will decide who is deserving of my friendship, love and compassion. And guess what? YOU ARE!!

I connected with you very early on when I arrived here, and the relationship I have with you is something I've rarely had in my life. I feel such a strong bond that is so true and deep.

Will you make mistakes? Of course you will. As will I. We are human, and it's alright to do so.

But you seem to be the butt of your family's frustrations. I don't know know why that is. Because I see someone very different to what they see. I see someone full of potential, full of love and compassion. A caring, kind person.

Your depression is talking to you right now. Give it a boot up the backside. You are deserving. 💜💜💜💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 8:46 pm AEST

Re: not coping

I’m having a cuppa. Do you want one @Sans911 @outlander @Jynx @Emelia8

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 8:57 pm AEST

Re: not coping

i am lucky to have you @Sans911 💜
atm the thoughts are controlling. back to wishing i was successful in previous attempts. i wish i could say i wasnt struggling but atm i feel like im the mistake.

@Emelia8@Eve7@Jynx
yes please a tea would be nice

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Emelia8Senior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 9:00 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Oh yes please @Eve7 ... Id love to just sit with you and relax over a nice hot cuppa. And anyone else around who may wish to join us too.

@outlander @Sans911 @Snowie @Jynx

Emelia 🌸

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Sans911Senior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 9:03 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Make that another yes @Eve7. White and one thanks, and strong 💪

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Eve7Senior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 9:05 pm AEST

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I am glad you weren’t successful @outlander but I am really sad you feel that way.

A mistake? Not you, ever. That’s a lie because I see you as precious 💜💙💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 9:10 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Cups of tea 🍵 🍵🍵 for 3 dear friends coming now with prn chocolates 🍫 🍫🍫

@Sans911 @outlander @Emelia8

plus a comfy recliner for relaxation 🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 9:15 pm AEST

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a tea and a comfy recliner sounds good @Eve7 thank you

the main reason i am still here is because of my friends on the forums. i just cant see past the darkness atm

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Oct 2020, 9:16 pm AEST

Re: not coping

its good to have you here @Emelia8 @Sans911

i have some of those melting moment biscuits if youd like any of those too

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JynxModerator01 Oct 2020, 9:21 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Sometimes we can't see light at the end of the tunnel because there's a bend in the tunnel @outlander. If all you see is darkness, perhaps it's because you're going to turn a corner soon.

Thanks for the tea, chamomile and spearmint for me, gotta have that soothing warmth methinks.

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