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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

How are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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have been busy @Snowie with all the horses and stuff. arguing with pop the rest. tired abit short on words for most things

how are you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear hun @outlander Seems like you could do with some time to yourself sweetie.

I am ok, spoke to the Doctor before. Looks like I will be in hospital next week too which is what I didn't really want.

Trying to cope with a med change at the moment too which is knocking me around a bit.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Just wanted to stop by and let you know I have been thinking of you all. I care, and wish I could be more support to you all, than what I have been lately. I feel bad about that and I'm sorry. Sending lots of love and care your way, and please know that its coming ... whether I am physically here or not.

@outlander @Snowie @Eve7 @Sans911 @Anastasia etc

Emelia 🌸

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh that kinda sucks @Snowie
is it still school holidays for Vic?
Sorry about the med change, hopefully after a day or 2 itll settle and be a good match for you

i now have the added role of taking my sister driving. im so extremely nervous about doing it though. i didnt really want the responsibility but doesnt seem like anyone else wants to help and she doesnt want to go with pop anymore. ive been paying for weekly lessons already.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its ok @Emelia8 you can only be here when you feel ok to
i know your going through so much, im sorry i am short on words but i am thinking of you and walking this journey with you

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander thank you

I just wrote one post and am completely drained...I'll reply tomorrow.

Have been thinking of you...sending 💙💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yes it is still schoo holidays in VIC @outlander so that makes it a bit easier on H.

Hoping it is worth staying in or else I don't know what I will do. I just feel like giving up on everything at the moment.

I would be nervous if I had to take someone for driving lessons too hun. You are such a good big sister to her, I hope she appreciates everything you are doing for her.

@NatureLover @Emelia8 @Anastasia @Former-Member lots of love and hugs to you both 💌💜💖

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👋 @Snowie @outlander @Sans911 and everyone. 💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats ok @NatureLover
self care sounds like its needed atm. im here for you if you need to talk. not a huge amount of words but happy to lend an ear 🧡🧡 (orange i think is your favourite)
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