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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:27 pm AEST

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Oh geez that's terrible hun. I am so sorry to hear that.
Glad you had a nice afternoon with the kids.
My day was non eventful. Was suppose to go out but as usual I chickened out and stayed home.
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:30 pm AEST

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thanks @Lee82 it was nice to do something with them and no arguments which is a bonus!

im sorry you didnt get to go out. have yout tried click and collect? that way you get go and get what you need but without having to stay and shop.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:30 pm AEST

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That doesn't sound good @outlander hope your mum is ok.

Cake decorating sounds like yummy and fun. Sending love x

Hi @Lee82 and everyone x

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:34 pm AEST

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yeah she is ok @Anastasia people are just so disrespectful. im ashamed to be apart of this generation tbh. they think they are so priviledged and shows very much in their attitudes.

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Lee82Senior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:41 pm AEST

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I have thought of click and collect but I think I am going to need to try and get out at some stage otherwise I am going to be a prisoner in my own home.
@outlander

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Lee82Senior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:42 pm AEST

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Hey @Anastasia how you doing today? How was your boy today hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 5:48 pm AEST

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maybe make it a goal to just go to even a convenience store for now @Lee82

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Lee82Senior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 6:07 pm AEST

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Yea I will have to make that first step at some point @outlander

I have one son going back to school next term.

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 6:08 pm AEST

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thatll be good for you @Lee82 i hope he goes back without to much fuss

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor29 Sept 2020, 6:16 pm AEST

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Yes @outlander

Too many disrespectful people around that act as though the world owes them sadly.

I'm ok thanks @Lee82

My boys still spiralling from his few days away ☹️ today I was in the office so got a bit of a break he seems a bit better tonight so hopefully slowly coming good. I'm mentally taxed from everything so I'm sorry my presence hasn't been here much and my answers short or non existent. Think of you all always @Former-Member @oceangirl @Sans911 @Snowie @NatureLover @Eve7 and everyone else xx

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