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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:09 pm AEST

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Thank you @Jynx and @outlander

im ok now. It havs passed

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:12 pm AEST

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ok im glad @Lee82
do you want to talk about things now or im happy to make you a virutal cuppa and sit with you if thats better

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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Would love a cuppa and to just sit for now hun. Thank you.
@outlander

I am just totally exhausted and have nothing left in me to talk.
happy to listen though if there is anything you want to chat about

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:23 pm AEST

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no worries ill put the jug on @Lee82 i know what its like to be to tired to talk

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:35 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander I'll have two tsp coffee with milk.
do you have any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:36 pm AEST

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coming right up @Lee82

i have the horses to try and get done in the morning, see pop off with his friends and have the kids till midnight

what about you?

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:45 pm AEST

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What time do you have the kids from @outlander ? Do you have any time at all for yourself tomorrow?

i have to attempt to go To the shops tomorrow and try and take my dog for walk.

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:47 pm AEST

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i have the kids from 1230/lunch time till midnight @Lee82

ive got to go to the shops too but ive already done a click and collect. i brought some things to bake and decorate cupcakes so at least the little one will have something to do. the teenager might want to do some too. we all usually sit down and decorate them together gives us something to do.

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 8:55 pm AEST

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That sounds like a nice afternoon hun. How has you headaches been lately?
@outlander

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Sans911Senior Contributor28 Sept 2020, 9:05 pm AEST

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Yes, I'm here @outlander

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