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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 8:20 pm AEST

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oh dear @Eve7 that doesnt sound very good at all. Geez that medication doesnt sound like a very good match for you!

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 8:22 pm AEST

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How was your day @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 8:23 pm AEST

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veyr long @Eve7 i wear out so much quicker these days. makes it hard to do lots of things or what i need to do now.

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 8:31 pm AEST

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You do such heavy work @outlander and I worry about you not getting enough nutrients into your body.

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 8:46 pm AEST

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Im barely doing any work atm @Eve7 mostly the kids now tbh and the horses every second day. i sometimes do events on the weekend but how can 4 hours feel so long and tiring.

eating is soo mich effort and usually just cant be bothered trying to find things atm. i just cook something healthy of a night time i dont really have anything through the day but have always been that way really even through school

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 9:06 pm AEST

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Just the fact you’re in so much pain would be a drain on your energy @outlander I’m not eating much either, just not hungry anymore.

Are you still watching a movie?

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 9:13 pm AEST

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i finished watching the movie. just have gogglebox on the tv now @Eve7 not really watching it. kinda want to go to bed already but im not really at the sleeping stage just feel tired.

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 9:27 pm AEST

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Im not sleepy either having slept most of today but there’s nothing much on tv. I’m watching one of those home shows on 9Life. @outlander They inspire me but don’t motivate me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 9:47 pm AEST

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ive just had a shower and just resting in bed now after some pain meds. have a achy headache again and bad stomach flare up again.going to watch an episode of one born @Eve7

theres lots of good shows on the 9 life channel. usually i jsut put it on for background noise though as i dont get motivated either.

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 Sept 2020, 10:05 pm AEST

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I like House hunters international because I wanted to work in London. Not likely to happen now though @outlander

I am getting into bed now. I hope you are just a bit better than yesterday.

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