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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 7:44 am AEST

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Good morning @outlander off to work but wanted to send you love first ❤️

Love to everyone else too x

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 8:27 am AEST

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@outlander I guess well done on selling your car although you have mixed feelings about it, but the money will be good...

I have been struggling in the evenings so haven't been around in the evenings, but I am catching up on everyone's news in the mornings...miss chatting though.

Sending you heaps of good wishes as usual, @outlander 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 11:28 am AEST

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hello @Clawde i havent met you yet
feel free to pop in and say hello anytime your welcome here 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 11:31 am AEST

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morning @Sans911 @Snowie @Eve7 @NatureLover @Lee82 @Former-Member @Anastasia wishing you all a good day

@NatureLover im sorry your struggling of an evening. the nights are usually the worst for me too esp when cant sleep. do you want to talk about anything?

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Lee82Senior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 11:47 am AEST

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Good afternoon @outlander how you feeling today hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 12:13 pm AEST

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im okish @Lee82 hoping to get a massage soon to hopefully help with these headaches. last day of school for the kids.

one has an interview this arvo so need to take her there after school.

how are you?

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Lee82Senior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 12:54 pm AEST

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Oh honey I am so sorry you are still suffering with these damn headaches. I hope you are able to get some relief soon.
I am okish too. Been struggling a lot these past few days. Haven't really been out the house at all for about 3 days now and no intentions to do so anytime soon.
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2020, 12:59 pm AEST

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im trying a new therapy called bowen therapy @Lee82 but theres a 4 week wait atm.
hoping to maybe get a massage before then though just to help settled them a bit.

im sorry youve been struggling so much. tbh ive barely been out of the house either. ive just been taking the kids to and from school and just to feed my own horses .

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor26 Sept 2020, 10:42 am AEST

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Hello @outlander just popping in to say hi and send love. Not sure what today will bring. I'm still in bed but should get up. I hope you have a nice day, always thinking of you x

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Lee82Senior Contributor26 Sept 2020, 3:45 pm AEST

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@outlander 💚 hope your head is feeling slightly better today babe.

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