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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@outlander thank you for posting a response. I'm really glad to hear you're okay right now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that's really hard 😞 @Snowie
do you want to talk about anything? happy to listen if itll help?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No I can't go there tonight hun @outlander thanks anyway.

Am happy being here supporting you and @Sans911 and anyone else that needs it

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander Ahh s2 is home now and is happy he has his fav psych tomorrow and his dad is coming up again on friday to do more work on his project. 🙂

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Sans911 @eth @Former-Member Hi ladies I hope you are all going okish tonight. It is sprinkling here which is nice. I can just smell the ozone :). No news but what do they say no news is good newsxxxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I don't really know whats helpful atm @Sans911 i just feel like im doing all the wrong things and even when im right its still doesn't seem right. ive even been trying to make friends and yesterday just proved how much id failed at that too. just wish i was normal.
i haven't used the worry box for abit, when things just seem to be in a blur its hard to find anything to write on the papers plus my pop was going through a stage of going through my things so its well hidden atm.
you know how you feel tired but its something deeper? like not from lack of sleep a different sort of tired that runs deep inside? i have a lot of that that i cant seem to get rid of either that is making things harder.

i guess trying to work through the assignment in bits and pieces might be ok. its 9 pages long and that's just the first assignment.! theres 5 assignments in total just for this module alone.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie and that's ok im just glad your online too cause like most us you hide when when things are tough too.
you might be able to help with some of the assignment too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that sounds good @Bunniekins
whats S2's project hes working on?
Does your daughter still live with you?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander it is a bit hard to explain but let us say that s2 is building things to help his voices fight imaginary beings from another universe. All of which is a huge delusion so we have to be very careful with how we deal with this as you can imagine ..... on a brighter note daughter has moved out of home and is independent and happy. She lives down the road from us and visits often and we talk every day. She is doing really well :Dx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh im glad your daughters going really well! @Bunniekins
oh i see re:S2 i guess whatever helps and having his father help him is probably good for him as well all while still being careful as well. quite a tricky situation id imagine.
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