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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember21 Sept 2020, 4:34 pm AEST

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Too much going on for me to cope with. So I drink @Anastasia

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Unknown userMember21 Sept 2020, 4:35 pm AEST

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Feel so bad for drinking @Anastasia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor21 Sept 2020, 4:44 pm AEST

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It's easy to do @Former-Member

I have taken up craft since Covid, it helps me

I really hope you can get through to chat, Lifeline are also great to chat to 131114 but I am more than happy to listen or just sit with you too 🙂

Please know you aren't aone, especially here x

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Sept 2020, 4:56 pm AEST

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Hey @Former-Member im so sorry i dropped out! Dont feel bad for talking here. I dont own this thread its just where i talk most is all. Your welcome here anytime.

Have things settled abit?

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Sept 2020, 4:57 pm AEST

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@Anastasia xo

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Unknown userMember21 Sept 2020, 5:18 pm AEST

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Hey @Former-Member,

It sounds really rough to drink to cope and then have to battle with the guilt of drinking It's wonderful that you are finding some lovely support here from your peers, but I encourage you to continue to reach out for professional support to help keep yourself safe.