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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 6:48 pm AEST

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I'm here hunny

No pics my day kinda fell apart sorry @outlander

Just cooking but can chat to you too and @Schitzo

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 6:50 pm AEST

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Hey @Anastasia @Schitzo

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SchitzoSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 6:54 pm AEST

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Hi @Anastasia. what are you cooking? Something yummy I bet 🌸🌼😁

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:05 pm AEST

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How are you @Schitzo

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SchitzoSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:12 pm AEST

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@outlander I'm very well thank you. How are you going this evening?🌼💚🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:15 pm AEST

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I am glad to hear that @Schitzo did you get up to much?

Not having a good day here. Hating having so many things physically wrong with me. Almost had a meltdown in the mall trying to buy just a few groceries that im allowed to have.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:27 pm AEST

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Hello, @outlander @Schitzo

We had chicken schnitzel, mash gravy and veg. Was yummy.

Sorry you haven't had a good day. It's very difficult shopping with allergies, so many hidden nasties in almost everything. Think simple hun, go back to basics, fresh food. I feel for you it's a huge learning curve. I find if I do a shopping list and work out meals its easier, it helps me xxx

How are you both now?

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:27 pm AEST