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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Can see it now @outlander

Gorgeous picture ❤

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ethSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander @Snowie @Sans911 and others here. Warm wishes to you all xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I use those skills for pop usually @Sans911 but when it comes to my mother its her way or the highway even after speaking with her shes still going to do what I asked her not to 'because shes the adult and its her stuff' no reasoning with her then goes on to ask if I can do something and pick her shite up that's shes brought and I said no why can she do it and now she has the shites at me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hello @eth 👋

he was a nice cat @Snowie he found a new home on his own terms though unfortunately I cant blame him. he found a girlfriend a few house up the road and well they kept him. glad he went to a nice home though.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Former-Member 👋

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @eth @Former-Member and others floating around

Hopefully @outlander one day you can get another pet besides the horses.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive got a dog a bird at my house and the kids have guinea pigs and fish at their house plus horses @Snowie I think that's more then enough animals for now 😬

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like enough animals for now @outlander 😊 I didn't realise you had so many animals besides the horses

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @Snowie
we had a few cows, a goat and a sheep (that cow of a thing use to chase after you when she was in a certain mood or if you got to close to her and wouldn't stop till she either got you or you managed to scrambled up a fence high enough she couldn't get you!) when one of mums previous partners owned his own property
and after that we had some frogs and snakes (along with the cats, dogs, horses and bird)

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That is a lot of animals @outlander

I have had dogs, birds, turtles, horse. I think that is it.

How has your day been hun?

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