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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 8:47 pm AEST

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ok sitting it is @Snowie but have listening ears if you need them

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 8:48 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander 💜

Are you ok?

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 8:50 pm AEST

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i dont know @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 8:51 pm AEST

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@outlander have my listening ears on too hun if you need to talk

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 8:52 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie just frustrated with life atm i guess and everything thats happening.
the new dietary changes are hard and even harder when everyone around me gets frustrated at me because of it.

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 8:55 pm AEST

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Can understand the frustrated with life part hun @outlander I am over it

Your new diet must be hard on you but it isn't right for people around you to get frustrated at you. You cannot help it sweetie.

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 9:06 pm AEST

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life shouldnt be this hard @Snowie i know life isnt perfect but COME ON theres gotta be a break in here somewhere for us hey

yeah i know i cant help it, its just really hard. i cant believe how much dairy is in. normally youd think like milk cheese and dairy sorts of products but its in some breads, pastas, cakes and that sort of stuff even damn potato chips, chicken nuggets/snitzels, pies and sausage rolls. all these things have dairy iin it

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 9:11 pm AEST

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No life shouldn't be this hard hun @outlander and it seems like there isn't a break.

We try and try but it seems like those speed bumps keep coming up and keep getting bigger.

I imagine it would be hard with diary in so many foods. I guess we don't realise until we need to stay clear of it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 9:16 pm AEST

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its even worse when you have people yelling at you or sighing or grunting or questioning everything because i cant eat what i could before ' you didnt have a problem before' well i actually did but i didnt know that was what was making me sick. pop told me to go live with my mother because we should have to have different food. i have to cook specific things normally anyway because hes so fussy.

speed humps hey think they are more like mountains!

did you end up going shopping with D today? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 Sept 2020, 9:30 pm AEST

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I'm sorry you have to put up with that @outlander It isn't your fault at all hun

I know your pop says that but he couldn't live without you sweetie, you do so much for him and do such a good job. I'm sure he would miss you if you went.

I took her shopping today but H came with us so I didn't have to drive. Took some prn early on so couldn't drive anyway.

Those moutains seem too high at the moment. Try to get over them but keep falling of the edge.

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