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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander , have been catching up on your thread...I'm sorry to hear about the scare with your car. Can your mother help out with the costs of fixing the car, seeing that you use your car to transport the kids everywhere every day?

I hope your headaches are improving...sending much 💙

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@NatureLoverGood point.

@outlanderHope today is better.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie @Appleblossom

@NatureLover i think it might be an easy fix. the part only cost me $20 to buy and $20 petrol when the time comes but im unsure how to change this one myself so ive asked a family member whose good with cars who could do it. i think it should hopefully solve the issue since its never done it before. with my sisters milestone birthday coming up and plans already for the past few months but lots of expensive things.i will leave the cars other issues till after then and go from there. i might be able to go for a large personal loan by then and actually get a decent car and then just sell this one cheap. the cars onyl worth 3 grand but ive already spent 2 and then if i do all the other repairs its around 2000 so already spending more then what its worth (not including rego or tyres because thats just car maintenance)

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Quick break for lunch, hope you are all well xxx

@outlander @@Appleblossom @NatureLover @Snowie @Eve7 ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Yes, I see what you mean about the car, @outlander ...that sounds like a good plan.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Anastasia
@NatureLover

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Good Morning @outlander

Please remember to go to the chemist this morning and have a wonderful day.

Lots of love gorgeous girl

💜💙🤗💙💜

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thinking of you @outlander 💐

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night sweetheart and today goes ok at the event.

Remember to go to the chemist today!!

💜💜

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Hey little one. How you going hun? How has your head been these days? Any plans for the weekend?

sending you a gentle hug. 💗

@outlander

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