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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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of course @Anastasia not to late ☕

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thanks lovely @outlander 🌸

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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your welcome anytime @Anastasia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear about your wound @Eve7 xxx

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Welcome @Anastasia its lovely to have you join us.

I’m sorry you’re experiencing these symptoms @outlander but our brains sometimes react in strange ways as part of the healing process. Your brain is possibly just wanting rest. It’s just going to take time.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah alot more time then expected i think @Eve7

oh gosh that sounds like a nasty wound. im glad your gp will be taking a look on monday, hopefully something can be worked out.
i get the shame guilt and embarrassment. ive had to be treated for my sh wounds a few times too very hesitantly i asked for help from gp but it was really hard to do. i also had to hide it from family and others as well so it made the shame and embarrassment even more too

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Eve7

I m grateful to be here with you and @outlander

We all do things at times Eve that we regret hun, don't beat yourself up. To err is to human ❤️❤️❤️

I hope it starts to improve for you soon x

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Unknown userMember

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Hi there @outlander and @Eve7

I am just needed to butt in briefly and let you know that the forums guidelines do not allow references to methods of self harm. I understand and appreciate the support you are offering each other around self harming and the importance of discussing the issues but please be careful about not referring or alluding to self harm methods.

Feel free to check the guidelines at:

https://saneforums.org/t5/help/faqpage/title/community-guidelines

take care

Whitehawk

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Your welcome here anytime @Anastasia
How has your day been? Sorry if youve already mentioned ive forgotten what i read earlier

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry @Former-Member but I haven’t said how it occurred and I doubt that anyone would guess how but end of story and no more discussion.

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