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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Just struggling a little @Eve7

Was going to bed but to hard to sleep. Might watch a movie for abit longer till i can take pain meds and hopefully settle it enough to sleep

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am so sorry you have this pain @outlander . I hope when you take the meds they kick in quickly so you can sleep.

My head is racing tonight and I don’t know if I’ll sleep.

Sitting with you hon

💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Eve7 some things just hit hard sometimes. Reality of some aspects of my life just stick out. The lonliness and emptyness sinks in more. Like everyday is just a record. Round and round it goes.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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If only I could take away all this pain @outlander I am so sad to hear you talk about your loneliness as it doesn’t seem fair. I have some really close friends who add value to my life and I really want that for you. Did you have friends at school? Can I ask about your Dad??

its good to have friends here and you have many but it’s also good to have at least one real life friend.

one day you’ll look back on this time with wonder...you’ll see your life so differently then.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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My real dads never been in the picture @Eve7 he left before i was born and doesnt want anything to do with me. I know who he is mum even has him on fb
Didnt really have friends. I was always the third wheel the ruined everything there too. Was bullied badly for a few yrs bad timing as thats when sa was happening too before moving to a new school and ended up just sticking to myself. I had people around but i was still the person who made it a crowd. The teachers at the time are the only reason i scraped through.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight @Eve7 going to head off. My heads pounding abd full of pressure again so going to head off.

Hope u can get some sleep tonight 💛

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Good night

@outlander

💜

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jem80Senior Contributor

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@outlander

Sending you a virtual hug 🤗

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am sorry it’s been like that for you @outlander but I’m pleased you have plenty of friends here.

💜💜💜

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💕💕💕

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