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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hi @Maggie it’s lovely to hear from you today. I hope you’re well.

❤️💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 @outlander

sending you both loads of gentle hugs 💕💕

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander Do you get migraines ? It’s sounding similar, but it might be the concussion effects. Sorry it’s causing so much havoc. 💜💜

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Sorry you're still struggling @outlander

Sending gentle hugs and love ❤️

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Oh @outlander 😞 I wish someone could wave a magic wand for you, for so many things in your life...

I really hope your headache has eased (it's been 2 hours since you posted), and the nausea too... 💔

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i sometimes get migraines @Maggie the headache is kinda similar but this one doesnt actually go away. my migraines can sometimes last 2 days (with still feeling abit off a day or 2 after but without the headache) and it responds to meds. this one doesnt and it gets worse. atm its at the manageable but dont move around otherwise itll flare up at night time i get immense pressure building up no mtter what position i sleep in plus dizzyness, on and off blurry vision, brain fog and everthing else that comes with it. i didnt get checked for 2 days cause i thought it was a migraine but when it was responding to meds plus all the other tell tale signs thought might be a good idea to get checked over.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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headache is at a baseline level atm @NatureLover painful but not over the top at the minute thankfully. just being careful not to flare it up.

hanging in there @Snowie getting to the time of the night when things get abit harder. watching the simpsons atm and just had abit of toast.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Really glad to hear the headache is not over the top at the moment, and that you've been able to eat some toast 🙂

@outlander

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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It sounds awful @outlander. I really feel for you. I hope you at least manage some rest. Lots of 💕💕💕 incoming.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover
i will prob only be online for a little bit longer so i can try and keep ths brain healing
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