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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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I’m so glad you’ve got your horse @outlander . Nothing like the love from an animal.

Thats a good bit on tomorrow @outlander, kids till midnight, plus pop. It’s tough.

I’ll say good night. My concentration is fading, typing getting slower. Lol. I’m a one finger typewriter 😂😂

Goodnight @outlander 🥰🥰🥰

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Well done for getting some things done today @Lee82

Is there something setting your anxiety off?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight @Maggie thanks for the chat ❤ i hope your stomach settles enough for you to sleep

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hey @Appleblossom

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Hi Bella

@outlander

Substitute milks can help. Its amazing how we find out about intolerance to casein where advertising overstated the goodness of that glass of milk ... my son is a bit sensitive but nothing like wrecked stomach lining.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Appleblossom sorry your sons abit sensitive to it. Hopefully it doesnt get worse for him though.

Hope that your going ok too ❤

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander ...I agree with @Lee82 that oat milk tastes the best in tea and coffee, but not many cafes use it. All the cafes have soy though, so I have soy in coffees when I'm out. Plus I find soy is better for cooking with, so I get both oat and soy. I also get rice milk as it's really sweet, even the unsweetened one, and I like drinking it in a glass, especially in summer. Probably too sweet for your needs though.

I'm glad your heart horse knows you are her owner 🙂

Thinking of you and wishing you good luck today when grocery shopping...I hope you're not too overwhelmed and can find suitable things to get. It's a steep learning curve, all right...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you @NatureLover
I finished the grocery shopping online. have horses to do now and only 2 hours before i get one kid and i need to clean a paddock up abit. not very motivated to do it though.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Wishing you as much motivation as you need this morning (and today) @outlander ...

Well done on the grocery shopping 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover i probably wont clean the paddock today, i dont have much on tomorrow so i can do it then.

im having a look around for a dietician atm. there doesnt seem to be many advertised in my area which is strange as i know there are a few so i think ill turn to social media and ask for some reccomendations.
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