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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 5:51 pm AEST

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im okish @NatureLover has been a big day full of obstacles including a new injury again.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:01 pm AEST

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Oh no! An injury? Am really sorry to hear that @outlander 😥

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:05 pm AEST

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yeah @NatureLover icant say to much as what happened today is easily idenitified but the injury is a very large graze down my leg and i have 3 large hematomas in different places so its making it quite hard to walk esp after basically walking/riding 4 hours plus more work with other horses.

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:15 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear @outlander

I hope you can rest tonight sweetie 💕

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:18 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
...the injury is a very large graze down my leg and i have 3 large hematomas in different places so its making it quite hard to walk esp after basically walking/riding 4 hours plus more work with other horses.

OMG @outlander ! You've had a huge day 😮

Have you been able to eat anything today? Am concerned for you...

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:19 pm AEST

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yeah just resting tonight @Snowie have made a tea and ordered dinner.

how are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:22 pm AEST

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ive been out since 830 this morning @NatureLover so havent really eaten anything, have ordered dinner though so ill have that when it arrives.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:27 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
ive been out since 830 this morning @NatureLover so havent really eaten anything, have ordered dinner though so ill have that when it arrives.

Oh gosh, am concerned for you @outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:30 pm AEST

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Glad you are home and have ordered dinner hun

Just finished having dinner hear @outlander

Thankyou for asking, but would rather not go there. Just too hard atm.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2020, 6:55 pm AEST

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@NatureLover 💜💛

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