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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member Good morning Sherry. I hope you are ok. Just come back from a lovely walk. The moon is a smile in the sky atm. You should go and have a look 🙂 love peaxxxx

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning/afternoon @Bunniekins @outlander @Sans911 @Kurra and whoever else is around.

Hope you day is going well 💌💌

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Hello 👋 lovely @Snowie

I always smile when your notification pops up. It's so good to see you here. Have you had your appt yet?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Aww @Sans911 its good to see you on here too. Had my appt. this morning. It went as ok as it could go over the phone.

How are you? Did Mr A let you sleep?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Did you talk to him (it is a him?) about you struggling with phone call meetings?

I'm OK. Very bored. I was supposed to help someone with an online meet right now, but they cancelled as they are sick. And it's quite windy out, so not ideal for a walk.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yeah I spoke to her (used to see a him) about struggling with phone calls. We are going to try telehealth next week hopefully.

It is hard to find things to do when we are not supposed to go out @Sans911 I find the days are becoming very monotonous. Not really ideal for a walk here either too. It's been trying to rain.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Yeah, I did think it was a him @Snowie. Teleheath should be a little easier, though nothing replaces that 'in the flesh and same room'.

Yes, monotony is a drag hey? They are many things I could do here at home, lots of little (read tedious & not exciting) jobs I could do. And there's only so much Netflix I can watch. I have a few magazines to read but I loose concentration easily.

Do have any unfinished crafts you could do? Sewing?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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You don't need to go @Sans911 I like talking to you.

No nothing replaces in the same room, but hoping telehealth is a little better. I sued it with a dietician the other day and it seemed to go ok.

I have some unfinished cross stich I could be doing but it is just a matter of getting the motivation to do it. Which I have no motivation atm. I finished a jigsaw yesterday so thought I might start another one today. Again if I get the motivation to do it 😒

I could always clean the house!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander @Sans911

💕💕

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KurraSenior Contributor

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Yes @outlander, it has been quite a while. I've had a lot of major changes in my life some April 2018 and my world became very hectic. I've moved back to a rural area and I'm very glad to be away from the city.
I haven't set up.a specific thread yet. I'm just trying to catch up.with what has been happening in my absence.
I'm hoping today has been a little easier for you.
Luv n Hugzzz 💕🎶💕
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