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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Do you want to talk about anything? @Snowie

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Evening @Snowie @outlander @NatureLover @Eve7 @Former-Member @Lee82

You've all been in my thoughts today. 💖 💖 💖 💖 💖

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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What's happening tomorrow @Snowie that you won't be here?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I think she meant wont be here when i get home tonight cause i said i wont be home for another hr yet @Sans911 shes taken her night time meds so wont be long before bed...


How are you going tonight too?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I'm alright lil Sis @outlander. I've been trying to clean and tidy my house too. It was a bit embarrassing to have my support worker here today.

It's been rainy on and off all day but I still got my walking group in.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Your cleaner was off sick this week wasnt she? @Sans911 i get so sick of cleaning i get so lazy with it. Ive cleaned alot the past 3 days though so i think ill be right for a while as long as i try to keep on top of it again.
What did you and your sw get up to today?

Im glad you got your walking group in today too ❤

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Yes she was sick @outlander. Yes, I get a bit lazy too. But it's good in a way too, because I'm a bit fussier than her, so I've been scrubbing the shower and bathroom floors. I just do it bit by bit.

We watched a webinar about a new service that the Ndis is providing. Then my support coordinator rang to talk to me about trying to sort out a pyschology service for me.

I know you're probably quite anxious about tomorrow but it's good your going in the morning.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Sounds like an ok day overall at least @Sans911
Im glad the ndis is getting more services on board too.
Hopefully you may be able to acces psych services too.

Yes getting pretty anxious now. Ive been busy most of the day so i hadnt thought much -just kind of in the back of my mind but now that its late and quiet getting more anxious. Yeah im glad its in the morning id much rather that indeed.
They didnt even tell me if i needed to bring anything so ill just take the relevant cards and current meds in i guess 🤷‍♀️. They have everything else of mine

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I'm very sceptical of the service the NDIS is bringing in @outlander. It seems like it's been done without much thought or consumer consultation. So we'll see what happens with it. The NDIS isn't all it's cracked up to be. Lots of issues for many people, but the mental health funding they provide isn't really that fantastic and doesn't really adequately provide what people need. Anyway don't get me started on that trajectory. Not too happy right now with a number of services mh related.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Mm hopefully improvements are on the cards for ndis in the future @Sans911
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