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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:02 pm AEST

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Would anyone be around atm?

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MaggieSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:13 pm AEST

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@outlander 👋👋 I’m around. 💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:14 pm AEST

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Hey @Maggie 👋

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MaggieSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:16 pm AEST

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@outlander How are you ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:43 pm AEST

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Struggling abit
Cant get rid of this deep saddness i have but at the same time getting anxious about friday
@Maggie how are you going?

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MaggieSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:46 pm AEST

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I can understand your anxiety about Friday @outlander. It’s a very big day, in more ways than one.

I’m struggling too @outlander , life sucks sometimes. I’m sorry about the deep sadness, it’s hard trying to keep pushing through the darkness. Big 💞💞💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:49 pm AEST

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Anything i can help with? @Maggie im happy to listen if itll help
💜

Life really does suck sometimes 😞

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MaggieSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 1:54 pm AEST

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I’ve raved on my thread about it @outlander I won’t bore you with the big picture, only, I find rejection, where most find peace. It’s a worry. But I came to support you.

I know now you have big stuff happening, I follow in the background mostly. I wish things were different, I really do. 🙃🙃

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 2:02 pm AEST

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We support each other @Maggie 💜
I caught the end of end of the convo about what happened with your psych and also the abandonment/attachment thing. I struggle with that too. It can be tricky to manage.

I always seem to have stuff happening. Its hard. Somethings are just conflicting. I arranged the arrival of the new pony but i stopped feeling excited about it. I already know the reality of it and it wont be mine. There will be big congrat posts to my sister for getting it blah blah blah so i wont even be able to do anything. Its not easy to manage.
Ive made a list of things i need to do over the next week to keep occupied and just what i need to do in general.

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MaggieSenior Contributor13 July 2020, 2:10 pm AEST

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I know how hard it is , being invisible @outlander. I know you are protecting yourself regarding the pony, but they choose, my guess is who that choice will be...you. Animals know more than we give them credit for. I know you know all that, you are an animal lover yourself.

The stuff you read is just the consequences of the big. I tried being involved in church again. I’m mad as a hatter @outlander , at least I know now.😥😥

I’ve always got stuff happening too. It’s all to do with abuse etc. etc. it just goes on and on.

Gosh, I’m a cheerful bundle of joy.

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