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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 10:57 pm AEST

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You have some nice things planned for your mother's birthday @outlander. You are a lovely daughter.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:08 pm AEST

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Oh that sounds interesting! @Sans911 good luck with it

Thanks im not having much luck finding things within a reasonable price though. As much as i love supporting local bussinesses some i think are overcharging for what they are offerring so just looking around a little before commintting to it.

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:22 pm AEST

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Grrr for price gouging @outlander. It is so wrong. I know businesses are doing it tough right now, but they shouldn't be overcharging for things. None of us are earning any more.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:32 pm AEST

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Yeah @Sans911
I was looking at a fruit platter on one bussiness and theres prob $40 worth of fruits and they are charging 80-90 for it.
Theres like 4 fruits that would get eaten out it anyway so itd be waste

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:39 pm AEST

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Can you not make a platter yourself @outlander? That way you can use the fruit you like best.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:41 pm AEST

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Probably, its just hard to source alot of of fruits now @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:52 pm AEST

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I am watching probably the most pathetic show on Netflix @outlander. 'Too hot too Handle'. It's all these egotistical, shallow gorgeous people on a tropical island. They are supposed to be learning to make deeper connections with the opposite sex. So the rules are no touching each other or yourself or money gets taken from the 100,000 prize money. It's so pathetic I need a bucket (to throw up lol). But I don't have to think with it, and can do other things at the same time.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:54 pm AEST

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😂 wow @Sans911 producers must be getting low on ideas to develop this stuff

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Sans911Senior Contributor19 Apr 2020, 11:58 pm AEST

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Bahahaha I HATE reality shows as a rule @outlander. Yep I think you're right. I'm not sure where they dragged this up from. But it actually makes me feel good about myself that I am so different to these people.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Apr 2020, 12:14 am AEST

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I dont watch those sorts of shows much either, so over rated. Ill only watch it if theres honestly nothing on and if ive already watched all the dvds i have here @Sans911 they are the sorts of shows that are background noise while doing other stuff

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