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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 July 2020, 9:09 pm AEST

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Lil Sis @outlander ❣️ ❣️ ❣️ ❣️ hugs my angel.

Evening my other sisters and friends @Snowie @Zoe7 @Shaz51 @Maggie @eth @Eve7 @Teej @Former-Member @Lee82 @NatureLover @Bunniekins @CheerBear @Judi9877 and anyone else passing through or hanging around💖💖💖💖

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 9:17 pm AEST

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Evening @Sans911

How are you? How has your day been?

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 9:39 pm AEST

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it doesnt really solve anything @Eve7 but it can help sometimes.
good to have you join us xo

@Snowie @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 July 2020, 9:44 pm AEST

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I'm tired @Snowie and still no quite right physically but I'm alright otherwise hun.

I think tea can help quite a lot @Eve7, but I agree with you that it has to be made with love and tenderness put into it. That's what's behind me getting someone a cup of tea as a nurse. It says 'I'm sorry I might not have anything to say or offer to help, but I care so here's something I can offer in the meantime'.

@outlander❣️ ❣️ ❣️

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Eve7Senior Contributor11 July 2020, 9:57 pm AEST

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I remember Nan saying "I'll boil the Billy" for all types of catastrophes...flat batteries, burst water pipes, broken arms, dead pets and mice plagues! Apparently , she even did it when the war finished. All nurses need to have this skill with lots of TLC.

@Sans911

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 10:04 pm AEST

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are you a nurse? @Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 10:15 pm AEST

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@Sans911 i hope you start to feel abit better soon. is that from the procedure or something else?

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Eve7Senior Contributor11 July 2020, 10:21 pm AEST

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I was @outlander but now I work in another Govt Dept where I have contact with my pdoc (but I don't know him personally, only professionally ).

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 July 2020, 10:27 pm AEST

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Yes lil Sis @outlander. It's just because my system hasn't gone back to normal
I'm more uncomfortable than in pain.

I wasn't aware you were a nurse too @Eve7. I haven't worked in 3 years

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 10:40 pm AEST

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i dont think you stop being a nurse @Eve7 @Sans911 even if your not currently working.

@Sans911 hoping your system goes back to normal soon. uncomfortable isnt all that pleasant really. when do you get the results back?

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