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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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So sorry to hear, @outlander 😥

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry you are feeling this way @outlander

It sounds like you have a lot of different emotions and thoughts at the moment.

Did something happen today to make it worse? (You don't have to answer that if you don't want to)

Lots of love and squishy hugs hun 💜💙💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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something did happen today @Snowie its so hard to explain.
is it really that awful that i want something to call my own, to have something that i worked on for 8 yrs to have some credit put towards my name? apparently it is.
everything is always we, ours, us. an opporutinty came up today, a good one to have a piece of my heart and soul back, a piece that has never been able to be replaced and everything has turned into we, us, ours. its not to help me in this situation, its to help someone else so while it might be mine its not really.
im sorry i cant really explain it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its hard @NatureLover
its tiring. im sick and tired of being sick and tired.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Its ok if you cant really explain it @outlander

I'm sorry it is so hard for you hun, it sounds like you are hurting so much.

Sitting with you sweetheart through all of this 💛💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
its hard @NatureLover
its tiring. im sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Am so very sorry, I really feel for you and wish so much that things would improve for you 💔

And I'm sorry to read that today you've had a piece of yourself taken away by others when it should rightfully be yours. 😥

It's my time to log off for the night...but I'm worried about you. Sending a warm gentle hug and some good, healing vibes 💙

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Some people will never change. I’m having to accept that my mother can’t give me credit for anything. Everything she says is to let me know I’ve failed.

I’m trying to believe the true things that my friends say to me.

You are such a beautiful person @outlander

@If you know something is yours, it is yours. Treasure it in your heart ❣ I hear your sadness my friend.

💙💜💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie sitting is good

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i understand the failing @Eve7 seems that is the only thing im good at. feels like im one of lifes biggest failures.

im glad your friends are around you, thats lovely and im glad that you try to believe the good things
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