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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 6:51 pm AEST

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@Maggie 👋💙 how are you tonight?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:02 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander 🙂

@outlander wrote:
i just watched put a tv show on the computer and put headphones in so i didnt disturb pop. i turned it off around 3 but tossed around alot for a while

Doesn't sound great, it's probably hard getting comfortable with the pain. 😣

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:25 pm AEST

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some nights are worse then others @NatureLover it depends on what and how much ive eaten in the day i guess particularly at night as thats generally when i have something. probably will have a reaction fairly soon as i had some takeaway.

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MaggieSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:33 pm AEST

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@outlander Not bad. You sound uncomfortable, I guess that’s putting it mildly. 💞💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:35 pm AEST

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im really getting over it @Maggie hopefully next fridays procedure will give some sort of answers. if it doesnt i dont really know whats next.

did you get up to much today?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:38 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
some nights are worse then others @NatureLover it depends on what and how much ive eaten in the day i guess particularly at night as thats generally when i have something. probably will have a reaction fairly soon as i had some takeaway.

I hope it's not too bad tonight @outlander 😣

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MaggieSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:40 pm AEST

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Cleaning and a painting lesson for my one student @outlander. She’s 86 and dotting crazy. She’s a lovely soul, and doing really well. She is getting a few requests.

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MaggieSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:41 pm AEST

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Next Friday as in this week @outlander ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:48 pm AEST

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@NatureLover 😬

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 7:49 pm AEST

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Aw thats cool @Maggie i would get lessons feom you too if i could 👍

No next week on friday (the 17th)

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