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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2020, 10:58 pm AEST

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Hi sis
Hows your day been? @Sans911 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 July 2020, 11:17 pm AEST

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A bit busy @outlander but a productive day.

I saw my case manager today, and I had to tell her what happened last week as SARC would have anyway. She's going to call them herself and get the referral sorted but the urgent counselling probably won't happen now. By the time it's sorted out, and if I'm accepted, it will be too late. I've worked through it almost.

There's a number of things I didn't get done today as I ran out of time, but I'll do them tomorrow.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2020, 11:21 pm AEST

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Your case manager sounds like ahe has your best interests at heart @Sans911 i think your right though you have worked through much of it yourself at this point. It might still be worth it though to get it off your chest to someone if it gets approved.

Hopefully you get what you need to do done tomorrow.

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 July 2020, 11:23 pm AEST

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Are you home yet @outlander?

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2020, 11:26 pm AEST

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No @Sans911 not yet i havent left yet. Mu should be back in about 15 min and then will be a 20 min drive home

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2020, 11:57 pm AEST

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Im at home now @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor07 July 2020, 12:12 am AEST

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OK lil Sis. I bet you are tired as you've had a busy day.

@outlander ❣️ ❣️

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 12:14 am AEST

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Tired abit sis but cant sleep anyway @Sans911 i suspect youll be heading to bed pretty soon though?
💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 July 2020, 12:14 am AEST

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@Appleblossom 👋

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Sans911Senior Contributor07 July 2020, 12:28 am AEST

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Lol I've been in my bed since early evening as I got cold. I've just turned out the light now, going to do some colouring in for a while.

@outlander ❣️ ❣️

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