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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 July 2020, 10:28 pm AEST

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do you want to come watch a movie and have a hot chocolate with me? @Sans911 (and anyone who is passing through too)

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 July 2020, 10:34 pm AEST

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Sure lil Sis @outlander

What are you watching?

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 July 2020, 10:36 pm AEST

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im watching drop dead fred @Sans911 ive never seen it till now. have you heard or seen it before?

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Sans911Senior Contributor05 July 2020, 10:47 pm AEST

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Oh that's a great choice @outlander !!! So funny. It has the actor Rick Mayall from the Young Ones,a hilarous British comedy.

i am definitely coming to sit with you for thsi one. I haven't seen it in ages!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 July 2020, 10:53 pm AEST

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@Sans911
im glad you like this movie 👍
ive got the heater on so its nice and warm and a hot choc waiting for you ☕🍫

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 July 2020, 11:39 pm AEST

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@Lee82 👋💙

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Lee82Senior Contributor05 July 2020, 11:40 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander and @Sans911 . I have just been catching up on the thread. Sounds like you have had a rough day @outlander. I'm so sorry to hear this but I was so happy to see all the support you have been given. Drop dead Fred was one of my favourite movies growing up. (Snot face.) lol

and @Sans911 sounds like your day was nice and relaxed. Lovely to hear that but a little annoying with the mix up with the nurse. I hope this hasn't made things to uncomfortable for you. Will your dressings be looked after tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 July 2020, 11:57 pm AEST

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Looking like a very long night too @Lee82 😞

I struggled to watch it tbh. Kept zoning out too much i think. Better then silence though.

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Lee82Senior Contributor06 July 2020, 12:00 am AEST

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Yep definitely going to be a lon gnohht for me too @outlander .

yea I think if I was to watch drop dead fred again now I wouldn't find it interesting anymore. Was definitely an 80's movie.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2020, 12:09 am AEST

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Oh is it an 80s movie? @Lee82 it doesnt seem that old

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