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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 5:42 pm AEST

Re: not coping

I hope it goes well with the counsellor, @outlander and that you get some support.

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 5:44 pm AEST

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Hopefully you don't have to wait too long @outlander

Happy to keep you company in the mean time 😉

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 5:45 pm AEST

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thanks @NatureLover its usually about an hours wait but hopefully it wont be to long

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 5:46 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie
i hope it wont be to long either

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 6:22 pm AEST

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I think its a bad idea @Former-Member @Snowie @NatureLover its not going to well. I cant get words out and they are getting frustrated at me

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 6:24 pm AEST

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Its not my usual counsellor. Shes away till nezt week so i said can i talk to them instesd but i dont think its a gopd idea

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Unknown userMember03 July 2020, 6:30 pm AEST

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You tried sweetie, that's all anyone can ask of you. If it's not going and making you feel worse then end the conversation and come sit with your family here little one. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 6:33 pm AEST

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Ive ended it @Former-Member
Im sorry

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Unknown userMember03 July 2020, 6:38 pm AEST

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Don't be sorry sweetie, you have nothing to be sorry for. You tried and that is what counts. Jeez, I would love to be able to give you a hug right now. @outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 July 2020, 6:43 pm AEST

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You tried @outlander that is enough in itself

Talk with us here if you want.

Or we could talk about something else

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