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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 4:31 pm AEST

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Am looking forward to it @Sans911 Family time together and a chance to recharge my batteries.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 6:35 pm AEST

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hoping your days have been ok or better @Snowie @Sans911 @Maggie @CheerBear @eth @NatureLover @Former-Member @Lee82 @Eve7 and all who may be passing through 💚🧡💙💛💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 6:43 pm AEST

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Hey sis @outlander

How are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 6:56 pm AEST

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just trying to make it through the day/night atm @Snowie

How are you going? are you prepared for your trip?
are you going to be allowed to go with current covid situation in vic?

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 6:59 pm AEST

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Am around if you need to chat @outlander

I am okish.

We should be fine going, where I live is not in lockdown nor is where we are going. Haven't even started to get ready, that is a job for tomorrow.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 7:05 pm AEST

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i hope you can still go @Snowie fingers crossed the situation doesnt change. it sounds like its something your all looking forward to. a break would be nice for you.

i dont know if talking would help atm. im just worn out i guess. ive already had a meltdown at my nurses office. very embarrassing

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 7:15 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
i dont know if talking would help atm. im just worn out i guess. ive already had a meltdown at my nurses office. very embarrassing

I'm not surprised, you're running on empty, @outlander 😥

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 7:19 pm AEST

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Hopefully we can still go. I am looking forward to the peace and serenity.

No doubt you are worn out hun, it has been non stop for you lately.

Don't be embarassed for having a meltdown @outlander perhaps it is what was needed. Sometimes bottling up everything inside just overflows.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 7:26 pm AEST

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@NatureLover @Snowie

Snowie- the peace and serenity does sound nice thats for sure.

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 June 2020, 7:28 pm AEST

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Have you any plans for tomorrow hun @outlander

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