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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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Little one that is great news, I mean you where finally heard and taken seriously. I know you might be feeling a little worried about the procedure and everything but at least now you will have answers. Sending you a great big hug.

🦕💖 @outlander 💖🦕

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I can understand your anxiety around all the test especially when he suggests they are urgent. Just take one day at a time sweets and one test at a time. You are going to need to put your foot down with your mum hun as you are going to need more support around your appointments and I don't think its very fair that you now may have extra activities after school to worry about. Makes me so angry that you are being treated like this and not appreciated for what you do for everyone. 😡😡

@outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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What @Lee82 said. 👍

I hope Monday goes all right despite all you have to do @outlander ...

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ethSenior Contributor

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@outlander you have resilience way beyond your years and I am confident you will get through this. I'm pretty sure the gastroscopy will be a day surgery procedure (like a colonoscopy but the other end thank goodness) - it will be gentler than a full anaesthetic (called a neurolept I think - puts you into a deep sleep - @Sans911 might know more than me). The only thing is they will probably want someone to take you home. I could be wrong about some of this but what I am saying is 'this too shall pass' little one.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander your post made me smile hun 😊

I am so glad you got a caring specialist who is taking your results seriously. It is about damm time you find someone more interested in you as a patient instead of the bottom dollar.

I hope this specialist can get to the bottom of things quickly.

Lots of love and gentle hugs 💖💖💖

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I just popped in to say I saw this notification @outlander and I'm so pleased with this news. You've had had someone super nice who's looking out for you.

I'm not ready to come back here yet. Sorry. I've got my mother staying with me, and she's having all sorts of issues with a new rental through state housing. She's very emotional and up and down. So she's needing a lot of support and help to try to sort things out.

I'm missing you very much. It's took a lot of strength to stay away, and I've been so tempted to come back. But I just need a little longer. I hope you understand.

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Unknown userMember

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@Sans911 😀👀👂💕👍

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Former-Member @Snowie @eth @NatureLover @Lee82 @Former-Member

it is pretty nervewracking but there is positives so that is good. finally somethings being done and without costing me a kidney thankfully.

thank you all for your support as always 🤍❤

@Sans911i am really grateful that you stopping in and posted to me. i am missing you like crazy but i understand too. Please look after yourself, ill be looking forward to the day you feel ok to come back properly again 💛❤💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you tonight? @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember

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Sending you gentle hugs little one.

🦕❤️ @outlander ❤️🦕

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