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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 12:47 pm AEST

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thank you @Eve7

just under 2 hours till the appt now. I don't really have much else to do so decided to make some cupcakes for the kids for when they get home from school.
mums bf is getting the kids thankfully and then bringing them here (cause he has to leave for work an hour after pickup anyway) its relieving since it wont be pop getting them

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 1:11 pm AEST

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im starting to feel pretty nervous, I don't really know what to expect and wondering how much the next step (if theres one) is going to cost.

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Eve7Senior Contributor29 May 2020, 1:28 pm AEST

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@outlander

Just take one step at a time and get through today first. If there’s another step make a plan with the Dr but get through today first. Big hugs 🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 1:51 pm AEST

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thanks @Eve7 I will try

only 45 min left to find something to do

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 1:54 pm AEST

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Am hearing you about your anxiety about the appointment, @outlander .

Do you want to talk as a distraction?

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 1:59 pm AEST

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im not sure @NatureLover
ive got pop whinging at me now so I will probably go find something to do offline for a while to avoid him abit otherwise my anxiety will rise even more.
thank you though

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 2:01 pm AEST

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No worries @outlander ...take care, I'm thinking of you ❤

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SnowieSenior Contributor29 May 2020, 2:19 pm AEST

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@outlander Thinking of you sis. I hope all goes well and you get some much needed answers.💜💙❤

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Unknown userMember29 May 2020, 2:31 pm AEST

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Thinking of you little one.

🦖💖 @outlander 💖🦖

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Unknown userMember29 May 2020, 2:40 pm AEST

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Wishing you luck Li'l One @outlander 😀 You are on my mind. 💖

Hi @Former-Member .. I think it's great that you adopted the same name I gave @outlander ages ago, re Little One. 💜 How are you going today?

Sherry

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