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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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we have some thunder here now @Former-Member its so strange the skys are clear you can see all the stars except when lightning comes. this wasn't even forecast 🤷‍♀️
no definently not a fan of storms but I think its moving out to sea now. ive been ok with it possibly cause its more sheet lightning not fork so not as dangerous.


if my stomachs not as bad constantly like it was do you think the specialist will believe me? I still get flare ups have to watch how much and what I eat/drink, even excersing has minimised but cause its not constantly severe pain I always worry that they wont believe me

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Unknown userMember

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They have no reason to disbelieve you @outlander . Nobody wants to be constantly ill and in pain. Be completely honest about just how bad you've been feeling, dont minimise your feelings or pain. Tell it as it is and has been.

Off to bed soon. Catch you tomorrow. Love and hugs sweetie.

Sherry 💗

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Oh @outlander I'm so sorry. I didn't realise the extent of what went on for you with your dental surgery. I can understand your worries but I'm sure you will do fine. They are medical professionals and I'm sure they will understand you well my dear friend.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Former-Member I will try to be as honest as I can be.
I hope you can sleep well. thanks for being here

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Unknown userMember

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@outlander Good lass 👍💖

Good night. 😴

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Lee82 it was only suppose to be 5 teeth taken out (the 4 wisdom plus one the wisdom tooth had damaged cause of the impaction) but it has caused a lot more damage then what was intended. my surgeon I have currently basically just says that 'I knew the risks so I should complain' so time for a second opinion. it has been 8 months since I had it done now.

I really hope they will be able to understand me properly. if I can keep my nerves under control I think ill be ok and as long as some of the cheek swelling has eased from biting it today (again another thing worsening by the op :face_with_rolling_eyes:)

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander Hey outlander your candle is beautiful and shines for the one we love. You are holding up well lovely lady.

Good morning and lots of love to @Former-Member @Lee82 @Snowie @Shaz51 @outlander @Former-Member @Lee82 @Sans911 @NatureLover @Former-Member @Zoe7 and all those following wishing everyone of the formites a kind and caring Friday. Lots of love peaxxx

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Mmm that's bulls**t. I can't believe it's been that long and nothing else has been done.
definitely a second opinion is in order.
you will do great tomorrow. I have complete faith in you my friend. I will be thinking of you honey.
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Bunniekins
Candles are pretty and always loved them. this one is to keep the light shining for all my forum friends and those im yet to meet who may be struggling. My candle of love light and hope.
💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thank you @Lee82 🌻😘❤
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