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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

Re: not coping

Sorry @outlander yes notifications are slow again, and in mixed order. Been happening for a week or more now. Plus I am on slowmo, ie slow mobile. So a time lag, and will soon run out of battery.

I would love to have a cup of tea with you. You have it with milk, dont you?

@Sans911 sounded really upset.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yep same for me too @Former-Member i just refresh the pages every now and then in between checking for new members on the carers side. worry room post struck abit of a nerve but they are right in a way too.
yes please-lactose free milk if possible



@Sans911 please check in with me/us im worried about you

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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You're not interrupting at all @Former-Member. I just need some time to try to calm down so I was distracting myself. Thank so much for your support. I really appreciate it a lot.

Goodnight hun

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Unknown userMember

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Okay @Sans911 glad you are back. Just had second low battery warning on phone, so I should go. I will leave you in @outlander capable care.

@outlander re worry room thread .. yes I read it too. Yes I have the right milk. Need to drop and run. Enjoy.

Leaving some brownie for you both too. Not sure it compares to @Sans911 online demo brownie. Give me your critique in the morning maybe? 😀

Nite

Sherry 💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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goodnight @Former-Member thanks for the tea and brownies 😘
yes have to remember i cant be 100 places at once. glad more cgs have been appointed now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 how are you holding up?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Did I say the wrong things? Should I have just left things be? You did. That was smart. I've read them over and over, don't know how to change anything or whether I should delete everything completely.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 I know you were coming from a good place and trying to help. we cant always tell how others will react or how it might sound to others. One member has thanked you and explained it was targeted. we can only hope that when they come back they will see the posts and will work a way forward here and with you. that is what my hopes are.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Do you want to talk about something else for now as a distraction?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Not really. I don't know what I want to do right now @outlander
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