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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember23 May 2020, 7:42 pm AEST

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Ahhh @outlander ... good to see you. 💗

Must have been posting at the same time.

Sherry

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 7:43 pm AEST

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Trying to manage effects of eating something @Snowie 😑 and still abit sore from rupture the other day so adding up abit

Ive got kids till 9pm tonight

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 7:47 pm AEST

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Ahhh that sounds tough @outlander I hope it goes down ok hun. I didn't eat tea, struggling to stomach food at the moment.

Hopefully the kids are good for you sis.

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 7:53 pm AEST

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Theyre being ok @Snowie
Only an hr to go

Im only having one small meal atm and often makes me sick, even too many teas or drinks in general cause pain and other symptoms.

Hopefully your appetite comes back soon too

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Unknown userMember23 May 2020, 7:57 pm AEST

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That doesnt sound great @outlander 😕

Im currently watching tele. A British show about a rescue dog organisation matching dogs with suitable new homes. Its called The Dog House, and is on Channel 10. Its a very heartwarming feel good sort of show. Ambulance follows soon, I know you often watch that.

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 7:58 pm AEST

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My appetite hasn't been good lately. I know it is to do with everything going on. And when I do eat it doesn't agree with me.

I'm sorry you have to go through all you are going through @outlander

Hopefully your mother is home on time and you can go home soon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 8:03 pm AEST

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Im hoping ill get to watch ambulance later @Former-Member it might be on in the daytime though if i miss it tonight.

Yeah i very much get that @Snowie its not overly pleasant
Mum leaves work at 830 but takes 25/30 min to get home

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 8:06 pm AEST

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Ill be back soon gotta help kids with something and try to not :nauseated_face:

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 May 2020, 8:07 pm AEST

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Watching Ambulance too @Former-Member

Will probably take my meds soon anyway and go to sleep @outlander Very much want today over with.

I hope you get some sleep tonight @outlander and you too @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember23 May 2020, 8:12 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie .. You too. 👍💗

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